If you are freshly postpartum, this might be a very real fear for you, especially if neither of you have taken permanent measures for sterilization (and hey, even if you have - fear is a valid emotion and we've all heard the stories of vasectomy pregnancies
In our case, I would say this has been one of the biggest factors, if not the number one factor, in our lack of bedroom activity. Simply put, I had a really difficult pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum experience, and I truly believe my body would not handle getting pregnant again
I'm sorry, but for me right now, that's the truth. Things do not feel the same, body parts are in different positions, certain parts may be leaking, and how on earth are you supposed to feel sexy if you're constantly worried about going through the ordeal you just endured again?